Be Real

Relationships of all kinds are built on the foundation of communication. Within the communication we must decide to establish the pillars of trust, vulnerability and intimacy. Without them we cannot establish a loving openness and a healing presence.

It is the failure to establish the three pillars that prevents the rich exchange of authentic human interaction based in reality between two people and not contaminated by the imagination or the unconscious.

We must choose to reveal ourselves to others or to wait for the moment when it feels right. Not everyone will accept us, because the thought of trusting, being vulnerable and intimate is frightening to them. Choose wisely who you reveal yourself to and let them decide if they are ready to join in.